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lalovelee

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➡️ where the confidence you’ve always wanted meets the confidence you’ve had all along🙌🏾
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The wild thing about being a boundaries and confid The wild thing about being a boundaries and confidence coach is realizing I oftentimes want more for my (potential) clients than they do. It’s a tricky situation. Wrapping up what people need inside a pretty package of what they want. I don’t always get it right. But I don’t mind failing… as long as I’m failing forward. Cause every “no” brings me closer to the “yes”. And every “I can’t” brings me closer to someone’s “I’m so happy I did!” So I’ll keep the light on for the “maybe next time” and “when are you doing this again” but feel full burning the midnight oil for the “I never knew I could this” and the “this has changed my whole life”. It’s difficult when you want more for people than they want for themselves. But keep going. Keep offering. Keep creating. Build it and they’ll eventually find it. Cause when they do? Its totally worth the effort 💕 Hope you have a beautiful boundaries day! Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 😘 #confidencecoach #beautifulboundaries #lalovlee #yourconfidentbestie #confidentwomen #bemoreconfident
So here’s the thing about living a confident lif So here’s the thing about living a confident life… You’re never too afraid to try something new 🙌🏾 Earlier this year, I spoke at a school on the topic of Boundaries and Balance to a room of teachers, parents, and caregivers. The room was not full. In fact, even though I was invited to be the guest speaker and many invitations had gone out… the seats were plentiful. Ya girl was nervous. But ya know what I did? Spoke anyway! Spoke like the room was full. Laughed about the echoes in the space 🤣 and said well at least I don’t have to yell 🤭 Gave my entire talk, had great audience participation, and afterwards was approached by one of the parents who worked at the airport and had an idea. He wanted me to speak at their TSA event on confidence and boundaries - at least that’s what I thought I heard 👀 What it actually ended up being was what you see here. And yet again… Ya girl was nervous. But here I am. Along with my sis @ms_jackson74. Behind security gates at the Charlotte International Airport as the only Boundaries & Confidence Coach at the TSA 4th Annual Mental Health Awareness event. It may have been been my first time doing something like this, but it was an amazing day!! So much networking, so many beautiful women who admitted to needing much better boundaries, new coaching clients attending tonight’s B is for Boundaries workshop (are you registered 👀), invites to speak at upcoming events… just a great experience. Takeaways: Do it anyway. Do it nervous. Do it with only a few people in the room. Do it with a lot of people in the room. Bring the products. Make the huge banner. Wear the funky frames. Offer the sale. Make the proposal. Accept the invite. Do the thing 💪🏾 And for those of you who have already joined my 5 day Big Boundaries Energy Challenge? You’re already taking the steps! Not signed up yet? Comment BBENERGY below and I’ll send you the link. No more playing small. The time is now 🙌🏾 Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 😘 #lalovlee #yourconfidentbestie #bigboundariesenergy #confidencecoach #boundariescoach #cltpublicspeaker #confidencespeaker #keynotespeaker #eventvendor
✨ Big Boundaries Energy is officially open! ✨ ✨ Big Boundaries Energy is officially open! ✨ The wait is over — enrollment for my 5-day live challenge is now open, and if you’re on my email list, then you aaaalready know… 👀 Spots are being claimed, DMs are coming in, and women are already grabbing their early bird seats (and saving $10 with code BBENERGY at checkout). This isn’t just another challenge. This is your invitation to stop shrinking, start speaking up, and set boundaries that actually stick. ✅ 5 days of live Zoom coaching ✅ Real-world scripts + tools ✅ Daily replay access ✅ Your own personalized Boundary Blueprint 💛 Plus a whole lot of love, truth, and confidence-building We start June 9 — and this is your sign. 🎉 Early bird ends May 29 💸 Use code BBENERGY to save $10 👉🏾 Comment BBENERGY and I’ll send you the link or just tap the link in bio If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to choose yourself… Sis. It’s now. Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 😘 Ps… tell a friend to tell a friend 🫶🏽 #yourconfidentbestie #lalovelee #bigboundaries #bigboundariesebergy #bbenergy #igchallenge #confidentwomen #bemoreconfident
So I’ve been walking 2 miles most mornings… an So I’ve been walking 2 miles most mornings… and this week, I noticed something: 👀 I didn’t dread it. I didn’t need as many slow walks. And I finished faster than before, like way faster. But here’s the thing: It wasn’t because I pushed harder… But because I kept showing up. No matter how slow. No matter how tired. No matter how messy. (Especially when the cute run pants are dirty 🤣) But that’s how progress works… in your confidence, in your boundaries, in your healing. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be consistent. You just have to love yourself enough to not give up. What are you walking towards this week? And how are you showing up for yourself? And if you’re ready to push a little faster? I’m hosting my free B is for Boundaries workshop tomorrow to help you start saying no without guilt and yes to yourself. Comment “BOUNDARIES” below and I’ll send you the link or tap the link in my bio to grab your spot. Today. Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 💕 #yourconfidentbestie #lalovelee #confidentwomen #growthpotential #keepgrowing #bemoreconfident
Sometimes, putting yourself first looks like pulli Sometimes, putting yourself first looks like pulling back from people who are used to you being too available. And when you start choosing you, not everyone will clap for that. They’ll say you’ve changed. 🙄 Actin’ brand new. But you know what? You are. Because healing demands reconnection… with your needs, your peace, your identity. You can’t become who you’re meant to be if you’re constantly betraying yourself to keep the peace. This next version of you? She requires boundaries. Not to push people away, but to bring yourself back home. Tell me in the comments: What’s one boundary you’ve set lately that helped you reconnect with you? Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 😘 #yourconfidentbestie #lalovelee #BoundariesAreBeautiful #ProtectYourPeace #GrowthOverGuilt #ConfidentNotConvenient #ReclaimYourPower #HealingOutLoud #ChooseYouFirst
Just a couple of grown folks who decided that rest Just a couple of grown folks who decided that rest is revolutionary. This day wasn’t about work, to-do lists, or productivity… it was about presence, peace, and being “unavailable” 🫶🏽 Work will wait. Your peace won’t. Confidence grows when you stop proving and start being. And boundaries? They’re not just for toxic people… they’re for the parts of you that think you have to earn your rest. Today’s mood: Wine, mountains, my man, and no emails. This moment is your reminder: saying no to burnout is saying yes to joy, love, and the soft life you deserve. And if you need a little help setting those boundaries? Comment boundaries below or tap the link in my bio 💕 theBisforBoundaries.com Your confident bestie, Lalovelee 😘 #ConfidenceInRealLife #BoundariesAndBalance #CoachOffDuty #WineDownWellness #yourconfidentbestie #lalovelee
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